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I Get Out – A Tribute to Lauryn Hill

Thanks for speaking out the truth!!!

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Motto of the Month: Let them Walk

When people can walk away from you, let them walk.

When people can walk away from you, let them walk.

Just sit down. I don’t need to make aftercall or nothing. I don’t have the hoop, I don’t have to make you shout.

When people can walk away from  you you, let them walk.

Don’t try to talk another person into staying with you, loving you, calling you, caring about you, staying attached to you, I mean hang up the phone.

When people can walk away from you, let them walk.

I don’t care how wonderful they are, I don’t care how attractive you are to them, I don’t care what they did to you 20 years ago, I don’t care what the situation is.

When people can walk away from  you, let them walk.

Because your destiny is not tied to the person who left. Your destiny is never tied to anybody that left. People leave you because they are not joined to you. You can get super glue and you can’t make them stay.

Let them go!

And you got to know when people part in your story is over so that you don’t keep trying to raise the dead. You gotta know when its dead.
When your boy is dead wash your face and have another baby. You got to know when its over.

If they left you its no accident. If you tried to make it work, and it wouldn’t work its no accident. Accept it as the will of GOD. Clap your hands, wash your face, do your dance and keep going.

Let me tell you something. I got the gift of goodbye. I believe in goodbye. Its not that I am hateful. Its just that I am faithful.  I know whatever GOD needs for me to have, he will give it to me. And if it takes too much sweat I don’t need it.

Stop begging people to stay.

Let them GO!

Source: TD Jake sermons and google image

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Zwaarden Zeven – 7 of Swords

These are the difficult cards in the tarot – not difficult to read, their meaning is clear, but difficult to bear. Here, someone is sneaking in and stealing swords. However, two swords remain, you are not defenseless and possibly you didn’t really need all 7 of those swords, so perhaps with hindsight, you can see that it wasn’t all bad. But in the moment, you feel the searing heat of loss but worse than loss, the sense that things were purposefully/maliciously taken from you. You will feel betrayed or deceived.

In this card’s image, we see someone apparently sneaking away from an enemy camp, carrying five swords in his arms. He has one sword that’s actually his, and – oops! – in his haste to get away unnoticed, he’s dropped another one. While his intentions are good – he’s taking the swords so the enemy can’t fight – really, his actions are putting everyone involved at a disadvantage: the “enemy” can no longer take any action at all towards a solution, and in stealing the swords (and dropping one) our protagonist has been deceitful and will certainly be found out. While the conflict that started it all was unpleasant, the choice to be dishonest creates a new level of struggle, and one that can only be resolved through admitting the wrongdoing and returning agency to everyone involved – each needs their own sword. It is so important to consider every perspective when deciding on a course of action!

Zwaarden Zeven staat voor het vermogen om dingen te doorzien, een helder denkend verstand en scherpzinnigheid.

Ook kan de kaart aangeven dat je “er stiekem tussen uit knijpt”, waarschijnlijk omdat je niet wilt dat er bepaalde aspecten van jezelf aan het licht komen. Het is bij Zwaarden Zeven niet altijd duidelijk wie de bedrieger is. Ben je zelf de boosdoener of ben je het slachtoffer.

 

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http://tribecatarotreader.blogspot.nl/2010/09/seven-of-swords.html

Somebody That I Used To Know

Video – Gotye

When you spend quality time with your loved ones…

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A waste of love, time and money-Yvonne Koelemeijer

As hard as it is, there is an important karmic lesson to be learned from each relationship we experience in our lives. One must remember that every ending is a blessing in disguise, for there is always a new beginning that follows it. You will love again. Like they say. What you are looking for is looking for you!

 

Anastasia – Left Outside Alone

Anastacia – One Day In Your Life

Yvonne Koelemeijer

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Zwaarden Tien – 10 of Swords

Everything that meant to happen..happened! Now it is over/ done.

When you get a 10 of swords on a tarot card readings it means the swords are stuck on the back. The betrayal (backstabbing) has been done.

There was a third-party situation. They lied about this third-person. The past, the ex-lover, ex-fantasy, ex-unfinished business. They betrayed (backstabbed) my love and my trust. Monique Dinandt

I gave 80% and the other person 20%.

They drained me financially, emotionally and physically. This was a narcissistic, lying and manipulative person. It was their way or no way.

They love the attention of other and flirted with other people behind my back. The only problem is that they forgot I am a programmer and into computers. I read and saw everything. They keep lying and backstabbing after this day not realizing I can read it all.

WHAT YOU DON’T KNOW ABOUT THE OTHER PERSON? Be aware – keep your eyes on the price!

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Zwaarden Tien-images by Google https://wintersession2012.wordpress.com/2012/01/10/10-of-swords/#jp-carousel-1591

Zwaarden Tien gaat altijd om een pijnlijk afscheid dat je beleeft met een bezwaard gevoel of met opluchting.

In relaties geeft Zwaarden Tien aan dat je “er een eind aan maakt”. Het kan gaan om het einde van een echte bedrukkende en slechte relatie. Meestal gaat het er meer om dat je met de kracht van je verstand je gevoelens afsluit en op die manier iets wat belangrijk is wegstopt. Hierdoor kan de wisselwerking in de relatie verstoord worden.


De zwaarden zijn over onze mentale wereld en de verschillende staten van het feit dat we ons in. Elke keer dat ik trek de Tien van Zwaarden voor iemand ik weet dat deze persoon heeft een zeer slechte staat van de geest. Dit is niet een happy place to be. Een heleboel keer je zal gaan door middel van een uiteenvallen van een relatie, een scheiding, een verlies, of een soort van verdriet met een relatie. Soms is het misschien heb je je hart in uw bedrijf en uw carrière geïnvesteerd en je hebt getroffen door een enorme tegenslag of er iets is niet erg goed komen, zodat je een staat van totale ondergang en wanhoop voelen. Yvonne Koelemeijer

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